Thursday, July 25, 2013

Headed to Smalltown, USA

Last week, Ethan and I left the girls at home with Grammy and Papa to go on our New Jersey house-hunting trip. We were really nervous, but I was excited to finally see in person where we would be living for the next 2 or 3 years. We left Houston Sunday after church and stayed the night in Newark before renting our car to head out west to the Clinton area.

But before I tell you all about our trip, here's our crazy story on the sale of our current home:

Really sad to leave our home in Cypress...

We listed our house on July 3, and by the end of the 4-day holiday weekend, we had five offers! It was so busy that basically the only meal the girls and I had at home was breakfast.  We accepted an offer couple days later, and have just come out of the option/contract period with no more added negotiations. Phew!

Back to our Jersey story.....

First of all, read this post to learn about why we're moving to New Jersey:
http://ethanandhong.blogspot.com/2013/06/our-roots-lie-here.html

What do you imagine when you think of New Jersey? Please don't say "Jersey Shore." Newark was pretty urban, much like inner-loop Houston. But as we headed west on Hwy. 78, we began to see why NJ is called the Garden State - rolling hills of green everywhere! Very beautiful, since Houston is so flat and below sea level, that you cannot ever see the sun set over the horizon.

45 minutes later, we arrived in the Clinton area. In the midst of packing for my family, I forgot to pack my own toothbrush and hairbrush for the trip. So we stopped by the town "A&P" grocery store. You know you're in a small town (total opposite of Houston), when the cashier doesn't need to use a loud speaker to call for a break of change in her till and when the manager just walks over to a wooden drawer sitting out in the open used as the "safe" to keep money. LOL, I chuckled. 

We head over to the real estate office to begin our tour of homes for the day. From 10am-3pm and without a lunch break, we visited 7 homes in Hunterdon County. There was not much in inventory within our budget that was also updated, but we did find one we liked. Still, we wanted to wait until we saw more houses on Tuesday before making a decision. We stopped in downtown/Main Street Clinton to have a very late lunch. Such a gorgeous area. We drove around just by ourselves for a little bit before dinner, mainly because there was a fire alarm set at our hotel. Luckily, nothing happened.

On Tuesday, we headed 15 miles west of Clinton on Hwy. 78 to Warren County. Actually the last exit in NJ before entering Pennsylvania.

See? It's the last exit. Told you.

The houses are larger and more affordable in Warren County. More bang for your buck. I was a little nervous because I did not want to be that far away from Clinton, and I really had not researched this area very well. And I really wanted to be in Clinton because it's so gorgeous! Good thing though, the commute for Ethan is only 20 minutes and without traffic from Warren County. Such a difference from his current hour-plus commute into Downtown Houston. In the town of Stewartsville, I was getting a little depressed because I just didn't find one that I liked. Some houses were so bad that they should not have been in the market, and at some, the owners were home during the showing. So weird. But then, we walked into this house, and immediately fell in love with it:


1816 Gary Road
Stewartsville, NJ 08886

The feeling we had was the same exact feeling Ethan and I had when we first stepped into our original Oak Mountain home in Copperfield. Felt like it was our home. Even two of the rooms were already painted pink and purple for Olivia and Callie! Olivia told us before our trip that she wanted a house with stairs. And we're glad that we could deliver! 


Backyard

If you turn left out of the neighborhood, you see corn fields on both sides of the road. If you turn right, you have all of the stores you need - Walmart, Target, Lowe's, Home Depot, Shop Rite, Best Buy. Although the home isn't in my preferred area near Clinton nor rural enough, I am happy that we have the best of both worlds. But, God put us here to find this home for us. I trust Him.

Wednesday morning, we visited a couple of potential pre-schools for Olivia. We went back into Main Street Clinton for lunch before visiting Ethan's new office, and what an amazing view from it! The government sold 900 acres (not 88 acres) to ExxonMobil with an agreement to keep most of it farmland. We weren't allowed to take any pictures while on property (they do top-secret stuff in there!). He will be working with some of the brightest minds in the area...and they're nice too! Everyone was excited to meet us.

Now, we are back home to take care of the logistics of our move. Ethan will fly back up to NJ in mid-August for work and an interview at Phillipsburg Christian Academy. He will fly up again to close on the new house on Aug. 23. The packers will come on Aug 27, truck comes Aug 28, cars will to shipped Aug 29, and then we will be on the one-way trip to begin our adventure on Friday, Aug 30. 

Please be in prayer in this next month:
 - that Ethan's two trips up to NJ in August are safe and uneventful (same for us at home!)
 - that Olivia will be accepted into Phillipsburg Christian Academy for pre-school
 - that move out of our Cypress home is smooth and for all paperwork to be done
 - that any interim work needed on our NJ home is done well
 - that the transition without our "things" to NJ and the flight, be smooth for all (this is the girls' first plane ride)
 - for us to FULLY trust in the Lord


In the meantime, Callie turned 9 months old yesterday:






More requests to follow...
And no good-byes just yet...





Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Crystal Beach

Our good friends, the Josefy's, invited us all down to their beach house last week in Crystal Beach. It was the girls' first time on the beach, and they had a blast! Luckily, we were away from Houston's 103-degree weekend and had a really nice breeze with temps in the low-mid 90s. It was a great time with family & friends.

Callie & Elise (2 months younger)

First Dinner

Girls loved pizza

Driving on the beach at dusk

Sea shells go in the water, according to Olivia.


The girls' first sleepover


First morning at the beach

No fear

Jumping over the waves



Callie liked exploring


2nd morning on the beach









Strike a pose

Jump!

Higher!






Thursday, June 27, 2013

Our Roots Lie Here

My Roots Collection Texas Children Inspire Design
http://www.childreninspiredesign.com

We love Texas. We were born and raised here, in Houston to be exact. I was only an hour away for college (WHOOP!) and spent one semester in Cannes, France. Ethan followed his parents' roots and went away to Sooner land. After college, we both returned to Houston with Ethan accepting a job with ExxonMobil and I with Vacations To Go. The same year I began teaching 6th grade World Cultures at Spillane Middle School, was also when we purchased our first house together in Copperfield, just minutes away from family. 3 years later, we made the far jump down the road to Cypress, and have LOVED making memories here ever since - joined Second Baptist Cypress and had Olivia in 2010, Callie in 2012 and we will be celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary this year on October 1st. 
Well, we have some news that has been consuming my mind for the last two months. And now I am finally able to share it with you.

Ethan has accepted a new assignment & promotion within his company, and we will be relocating to New Jersey! He'll be supervising a new team that will help researchers and engineers integrate the latest and greatest technology. It is actually going to be a lot of fun for him. And I am very proud of him and his hard work. It will be a nice change for him, and for us too. I am actually super excited about it all. Our girls are young. And not that we can't make memories in Texas, but we will have such different places to visit! 

The time frame is not exact, but we will probably be up in NJ by the beginning of September. This assignment will last about 2-3 years, and most likely we'd be returning to Houston. So, we are hoping to find a home in or near the township of Clinton, with a 10-15 minute max. commute into work (Annandale). I am looking forward to Ethan not spending two hours commuting for work each day.  And get this, we are only 1.5 hours away from Ethan's sister and husband in Philly, and only 20 minutes away from one of my close friends from college. It really could not have been in a better location. So where is Clinton? Go to your map app and you will find Clinton 54 miles due west of NYC. The area is mostly rural, with pockets of neighborhoods here and there. I am looking forward to the change.

Believe me, there are some things we will miss -  family, our church, friends and the familiarity of it all. But, I do believe that these plans have been in the making, and that these plans of God's are to prosper us, not to harm us and to give us hope and a future (Jer. 29:11). So, it's just best not to be so sad about it, and embrace it. Even if it will be cold & snowy. Even if we will have to make friends. Find a church outside of the Bible Belt. Find a babysitter. Even if the tax rates & home prices are a joke. You get the picture. 
Even if it's not Texas.

Here are some new pictures from the past couple of weeks.

Olivia reading to Callie in her room. I am so going to miss this nursery!

This girl is crazy during meal times.


Baking daddy's favorite brownies for Father's Day.


Making daddy's card.


Happy Father's Day, daddy!


Hello Kitty American dresses. Fitting.



Callie's 8 month bunny picture.


This girl is ALL giggles!


Olivia the Tickle Monster!





Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Videos

Callie Gets Stuck
 
 
 
Tickle Monster Attacks Again
 


Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Photo Dump 6/12/13

 Callie's 7 month bunny picture. She will be 8 months old in just a couple of weeks!


Olivia's last day of school with her teachers and the flowers she picked out for them.



I love putting Callie's hair up "bam-bam" Pebbles style!



Olivia adores her Daddy. She asks about him from when she wakes and all through out the day.



My aunt invited all the girls out to lunch at Shanghai Restaurant on Bellaire. Yummy!




The girls posing in the matching dresses that my mom bought for them. Olivia has begun to let us put her hair up in a ponytail, yay!