Thursday, October 10, 2013

Yup, we're alive in New Jersey

Well, I have to apologize for taking almost 6 weeks to create a blog post about our move to New Jersey. I am not ashamed to list you these reasons:

#1 -  I am lazy.

#2 -  Close to 100% of my pictures are taken on my smart phone. I've had issues taking them off of my phone to put on our desktop. But all is good, Ethan helped me do it just yesterday. 

#3 -  I've spent most of my free time during the girls' naps unpacking, organizing, cleaning, napping myself, doing my CBS homework, texting or shopping online. 

#4 -  My list of things to blog kept getting longer and longer, thus bringing me back to reason #1, especially if the list was downstairs or upstairs, where I was not.

Okay, I am back upstairs. Here we go.

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Saying Good-byes:
The last couple of weeks in August were spent with friends and family. After the house and moving truck were all packed, we spent five days at Janet and Denis' house. It was nice.


I stocked up on our favorite K-cup flavor from HEB.

Miss Rebecca, spotlight teacher of the year at Spillane MS.

Last Sunday at church

Hanging out with the Finks at our favorite place, Sushi Nikko.

Saying good-bye to Hazeldale.


With the Nichols and Josefys. Love these two families.

Ethan is always a hit with the kids!

Hanging out at Willie's with the Sarvarians, McWhorters and Mellos.

Aunt Kenny and Kaylan.

Had lunch at Phillipe Lounge with Mrs. Fields

Sundae Send-off at the park, hosted by the Nichols.


Four generations at Gringo's.




The Plane Ride:
The girls' first plane ride went really well. Callie makes friends almost everywhere we go (sadly most strangers gloss over Olivia), and so she was her happy self the entire flight. But, she doesn't like to sit still, so we walked up and down the aisle a few times. She had about one 20-minute nap. Olive did super well - she had stickers, the iPad, a DVD player and about 5 pounds of fruit snacks to keep her happy. 

Our New House & Neighborhood:
We had to wait an entire week for our moving truck and cars to arrive. That's something that was pretty difficult. Not that I couldn't live without our things, but my back was killing me from not having furniture, especially Callie's rocking chair. Having to get up and down off the floor holding a 20+ pound baby isn't the most comfortable.

Once the truck arrived, we had an entire team unload for us. They didn't realize that they were unpacking for us as well, so once that time came around, we had a total explosion of our items. The kitchen was a mess. It took me about 5 days to finally pack away the kitchen. We have less cabinet space here, so it took a little thought.

Right now, we are in the process of having the entire interior painted. I'll post pictures when that's all done.

We really like the neighborhood. Within two minutes, we can reach ShopRite, Home Depot, Lowes, Target, Panera Bread, Chick Fil A, McDonald's, Michaels, Toys R Us, Babies R Us, Walmart, a dinky shopping mall and a movie theatre. Our grocery store, ShopRite, even has FREE childcare for kids aged 3-years and older. What a deal!

We've met most of our immediate neighbors, and they are so nice. One family brought us wine and brownies and another brought us banana bread and vegetables from their own garden. Directly behind us is a family originally from Dallas, and they have three young girls. There are nice walking trails in our neighborhood, but boy are those hills hard!


The only furniture we had downstairs for a week.



We didn't have much to do besides go shopping and go on walks when Ethan went back to work, and before our moving truck arrived.

The chaos as the movers un-packed our boxes for us. I had a heart-attack.


My girls.


Ethan's New Office & Job:
As I have stated before, Ethan's office is about 15 miles away from our house in Clinton. Not bad, since the commute is only 15-20 minutes. The weekend after we moved up here, his campus hosted their annual Family Picnic. So much food and fun. Next year, I am just going to make endless rounds to the seafood buffet. 

Ethan's been traveling alot since we moved up here. By the end of this week, he will have been to Fairfax, VA 3 times and Houston one time. He already has two more trips to VA planned in October and then both a wedding in San Diego and a conference in Las Vegas for January. I am sure he'll have more trips somewhere in the world for November and December. I keep thinking to myself..."Why didn't we just move to VA instead?!?" I am praying hard to stop complaining about this so much. But all this traveling does give the girls and I a good excuse to visit Chick Fil A and Panera Bread often! Most importantly, Ethan LOVES his new job, truly.


ExxonMobil Family Picnic.

Carnival games at the Picnic.

So much food!

Olivia did not have a shortage of desserts either.


Look at this amazing view from Ethan's office!

This ain't Downtown Houston!

My three besties.




Olivia:
She started school the week after we moved at Phillipsburg Christian Academy. She likes it. She goes Tuesdays and Thursdays 8:20 am -12 pm. There are only 2 kids in her EC-3 class, including her. Olivia loves having stairs in the house, and has her toys everywhere. She is really into Disney Princesses right now - dolls, dresses and the DVDs. We started her in a ballet and tumbling class, and she loves it. She is becoming more independent each day, and enjoys going to school, ballet and Community Bible Study.


First Day of School




This is the face of an unsure kid.

Ballet class!



Callie:
She is so active and gets into everything! Callie is very close to taking some steps. She has eight teeth and is in teething pain almost all of time. She eats basically anything that you put in front of her, especially cheese. Her other favorite things to do is play with her sister and watch Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood on PBS. I thought that moving into Eastern time would allow her (and mommy) to sleep in a little, but NO, she's gone the opposite direction! Most mornings, she is up between 5-6am. Lord, help this mama when Daylight Savings Time ends in a few weeks...


11-month bunny picture.

This girl....

... will not sit still. Ever.

Proudly flying our Texans flag amid the embarrassing defeats.



Fun Stuff:
Ethan and I promised each other that while we're up in NJ, we'd spend most of our weekends out and about exploring this region. So far, we've been to farmer's markets and pumpkin patches. A few weeks ago, Greenwich Township (where we live) celebrated their 275th anniversary, and so we went to a cool Main Street parade and festival. It's really nice to live somewhere with a history that dates back so long. We've really had great weather up here so far. Most days it's been chilly in the mid-40s in the morning and then in the 70's during the day. 


Waiting for the parade to start.



Celebrating 275 years of Greenwich Township



Hayride to the pumpkin patch.

This patch has seen better days.



Hallelujah!





At a farmer's market. Beautiful mums in bloom!

Shopping.


Church:
We were so sad to leave Second Baptist in Cypress, and knew that it would be hard to find a church to match it. We visited one church once, and then have been visiting Calvary Baptist Church in Easton, Pennsylvania since, about 15-20 minutes west of where we live. We really like it there, and will continue to pray about where we should be. We also want to be connected with other couples in the same age and stage of life. Things are just a little different up here.


Enjoying the playground at church.



As for me... 
I am fine. The girls keep me busy. I enjoy the area, and we keep busy during the week. I enjoy going to Community Bible Study on Wednesdays with the girls, and meeting other ladies there. It's really my only time during the week to take for myself while both girls are loved on. I am proud to lug around my Texas-themed reusable grocery bags, wear my Aggie shirts, and will be so sad when I have to replace my Texas car plates. I think I might frame them. I have enjoyed all of the cards, letters and gifts that friends and family have sent to me. They've really cheered me up. I miss everyone!










Thursday, July 25, 2013

Headed to Smalltown, USA

Last week, Ethan and I left the girls at home with Grammy and Papa to go on our New Jersey house-hunting trip. We were really nervous, but I was excited to finally see in person where we would be living for the next 2 or 3 years. We left Houston Sunday after church and stayed the night in Newark before renting our car to head out west to the Clinton area.

But before I tell you all about our trip, here's our crazy story on the sale of our current home:

Really sad to leave our home in Cypress...

We listed our house on July 3, and by the end of the 4-day holiday weekend, we had five offers! It was so busy that basically the only meal the girls and I had at home was breakfast.  We accepted an offer couple days later, and have just come out of the option/contract period with no more added negotiations. Phew!

Back to our Jersey story.....

First of all, read this post to learn about why we're moving to New Jersey:
http://ethanandhong.blogspot.com/2013/06/our-roots-lie-here.html

What do you imagine when you think of New Jersey? Please don't say "Jersey Shore." Newark was pretty urban, much like inner-loop Houston. But as we headed west on Hwy. 78, we began to see why NJ is called the Garden State - rolling hills of green everywhere! Very beautiful, since Houston is so flat and below sea level, that you cannot ever see the sun set over the horizon.

45 minutes later, we arrived in the Clinton area. In the midst of packing for my family, I forgot to pack my own toothbrush and hairbrush for the trip. So we stopped by the town "A&P" grocery store. You know you're in a small town (total opposite of Houston), when the cashier doesn't need to use a loud speaker to call for a break of change in her till and when the manager just walks over to a wooden drawer sitting out in the open used as the "safe" to keep money. LOL, I chuckled. 

We head over to the real estate office to begin our tour of homes for the day. From 10am-3pm and without a lunch break, we visited 7 homes in Hunterdon County. There was not much in inventory within our budget that was also updated, but we did find one we liked. Still, we wanted to wait until we saw more houses on Tuesday before making a decision. We stopped in downtown/Main Street Clinton to have a very late lunch. Such a gorgeous area. We drove around just by ourselves for a little bit before dinner, mainly because there was a fire alarm set at our hotel. Luckily, nothing happened.

On Tuesday, we headed 15 miles west of Clinton on Hwy. 78 to Warren County. Actually the last exit in NJ before entering Pennsylvania.

See? It's the last exit. Told you.

The houses are larger and more affordable in Warren County. More bang for your buck. I was a little nervous because I did not want to be that far away from Clinton, and I really had not researched this area very well. And I really wanted to be in Clinton because it's so gorgeous! Good thing though, the commute for Ethan is only 20 minutes and without traffic from Warren County. Such a difference from his current hour-plus commute into Downtown Houston. In the town of Stewartsville, I was getting a little depressed because I just didn't find one that I liked. Some houses were so bad that they should not have been in the market, and at some, the owners were home during the showing. So weird. But then, we walked into this house, and immediately fell in love with it:


1816 Gary Road
Stewartsville, NJ 08886

The feeling we had was the same exact feeling Ethan and I had when we first stepped into our original Oak Mountain home in Copperfield. Felt like it was our home. Even two of the rooms were already painted pink and purple for Olivia and Callie! Olivia told us before our trip that she wanted a house with stairs. And we're glad that we could deliver! 


Backyard

If you turn left out of the neighborhood, you see corn fields on both sides of the road. If you turn right, you have all of the stores you need - Walmart, Target, Lowe's, Home Depot, Shop Rite, Best Buy. Although the home isn't in my preferred area near Clinton nor rural enough, I am happy that we have the best of both worlds. But, God put us here to find this home for us. I trust Him.

Wednesday morning, we visited a couple of potential pre-schools for Olivia. We went back into Main Street Clinton for lunch before visiting Ethan's new office, and what an amazing view from it! The government sold 900 acres (not 88 acres) to ExxonMobil with an agreement to keep most of it farmland. We weren't allowed to take any pictures while on property (they do top-secret stuff in there!). He will be working with some of the brightest minds in the area...and they're nice too! Everyone was excited to meet us.

Now, we are back home to take care of the logistics of our move. Ethan will fly back up to NJ in mid-August for work and an interview at Phillipsburg Christian Academy. He will fly up again to close on the new house on Aug. 23. The packers will come on Aug 27, truck comes Aug 28, cars will to shipped Aug 29, and then we will be on the one-way trip to begin our adventure on Friday, Aug 30. 

Please be in prayer in this next month:
 - that Ethan's two trips up to NJ in August are safe and uneventful (same for us at home!)
 - that Olivia will be accepted into Phillipsburg Christian Academy for pre-school
 - that move out of our Cypress home is smooth and for all paperwork to be done
 - that any interim work needed on our NJ home is done well
 - that the transition without our "things" to NJ and the flight, be smooth for all (this is the girls' first plane ride)
 - for us to FULLY trust in the Lord


In the meantime, Callie turned 9 months old yesterday:






More requests to follow...
And no good-byes just yet...





Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Crystal Beach

Our good friends, the Josefy's, invited us all down to their beach house last week in Crystal Beach. It was the girls' first time on the beach, and they had a blast! Luckily, we were away from Houston's 103-degree weekend and had a really nice breeze with temps in the low-mid 90s. It was a great time with family & friends.

Callie & Elise (2 months younger)

First Dinner

Girls loved pizza

Driving on the beach at dusk

Sea shells go in the water, according to Olivia.


The girls' first sleepover


First morning at the beach

No fear

Jumping over the waves



Callie liked exploring


2nd morning on the beach









Strike a pose

Jump!

Higher!